How do you and Matt cope with the distance? How are you guys dealing with the situation at the moment. You're on vacation in Florida so aren't you out really often? Also I'm going overseas with my family next month for the whole month, and my boyfriend and I are going to have a lot of issues with time zones. We're also long distance so it's hard enough with the constant dropped calls and disappearing internet. What do you think we should do to keep the missing each other and loneliness down? :c
Hehe, yeah, I do go out a lot here but Matt’s really understanding about the time zone difference and how I will be out a lot so there will be times where I don’t have internet. That’s the most important thing. You both have to be understanding of each other and the time zone differences, and how you both won’t respond because you are on vacation so you will be rushing from place to place sometimes ^ ^
Conveniently for us, we both have iPhones so we communicate through iMessage! ^ U ^ We also both have snapchat so I’ll snapchat him throughout the day (obviously they don’t send if I don’t have internet.) but when I get to a place that has free internet (some restaurants, Starbucks, McDonalds, back at the place you’re staying like your relatives or a hotel, etc…) I tap on the photos to resend them so he gets them all at once o u o Throughout the day, he sends me texts as well. I don’t get them until I get internet but it’s really nice and reassuring when I come home to them. It just lets me know that I was on his mind and that’s always nice.
When I went to Japan the time zone difference was crazy. So we barely got to skype or talk except for in the mornings and late at night where the time difference wasn’t too bad. So what we did at the end of every day was write blog posts to each other. We share a blog on here and every day I would upload my pictures onto it and tell him about my day and what we did and if something reminded me of him I would let him know that :3 He also did the same as well for his day o u o
SO ALL IN ALL, we snapchat each other and iMessage each other whenever we get internet, we update each other every day on our blog and whenever it’s possible we try to Skype. Even if it’s only for 10 minutes.
I hope you have fun on your vacation! Just communicate to your boyfriend. He’ll be understanding since you will be on vacation, and you should be understanding about his situation too because he’ll probably be out with his friends as well! Even the simplest action of letting him know that he’s on your mind is meaningful and if you find something that reminds you of him, buy it for him! (that’s what I did for Matt AHHAHA)
Best of luck! And have fun! ^ U ^